Kindness

If you read the newspaper, I guess that's old school so let me restart, if you read the news on the Internet today you are probably feeling a bit discouraged by what seems to be our inability to "just get along." Not a day goes by where some horrific act takes place and we are left to ponder what the heck is going on with our society. Well, I don't have any answers for you, and I'm not writing this blog to discuss world politics, gun control or race relations. 

This is the world on a broader scale and throughout history it's been shocking to see man's inhumanity to man. But, when I look at human relationships on a personal level, I have to say the story is so different. Frankly, I'm amazed and touched by the amount of kindness that has been bestowed to Patrick and I since his diagnosis. People are often reaching out to touch base with us, seeing if there is anything we need or just letting us know that we are in their thoughts and prayers. For the many texts, messages, meals dropped off, and thoughtful gestures we are grateful. I've often thought that I should write a blog and thank all the wonderful people in our lives, but frankly I would likely forget someone and I don't want to do that.

Recently, we had a sprinkler pipe in our backyard spring a leak. A gentleman walking his dog stopped by the house to tell me that a large gush of water was coming out our front yard drain. I went outside to be met by a couple of the neighbors to see the "roaring river" that was  running across the sidewalk. There was some question as to whether it was coming from my backyard or my immediate neighbor's, Hector, so with Hector's help we proceeded to figure out who was responsible for the leak. By turning off the sprinkler valve (didn't know this existed) it became apparent that I was the lucky winner of the water leak. With current water issues, I knew that it had to be fixed quickly but I had absolutely no idea how to fix it or where to start. So, now it's out - I'm not really a Ms. Fix It type of person. Hector kindly offered to come over and find and fix the leak, which I immediately dismissed because.... well, I didn't want to trouble him. 

So, I set off to hire someone to fix my water leak problem. I started with the front yard landscaping company and unfortunately, the gentleman we worked with had just been hospitalized.  So after a day or two of trying to work with them I found out why they weren't responding to my requests. This was a couple days before the Walk to Defeat ALS and I was quickly swallowed up by the tasks at hand for our walk team. So, the sprinkler situation was put on a back burner. All throughout these days, Hector stopped by a number of times to see if he could work on the problem. Finally, I told Patrick, "I think I'm going to let Hector fix it." A few notes about Hector, he is a handy guy, he's always outside working on his yard, or fixing an automobile. So, while we were at the ALS Walk, Hector fixed our water leak in the backyard. Thank you, Hector.

So, I guess I'm still learning to accept the kindness of others. I must say that I firmly believe there is still much kindness in the world regardless of what we see in the news.

I'll leave you with the final outcome of our front yard Halloween decorations. The grandsons were a bit disappointed that I didn't use the blow-ups but they like the skeletons, "they are scary grandma." On a side note, Anthony, is having a Halloween/Birthday Party the first week of November at our house - so the skeletons will stay out longer than usual. We haven't named the skeletons yet, so if you have any ideas please let us know!

For years the car wash at Arden Way and Watt Avenue put "sayings" on their sign and I enjoyed reading them. Yes, I got my pearls of wisdom from a car wash... anyway, I don't go down that way much anymore and apparently the car wash has changed hands because last time I was there the sign read $21.99 for complete car wash service. But, not to worry, the Togo's Sandwich Shop on Foothills puts sayings up on a board behind the counter, the recent saying is "If you have the choice of being kind or being right, being kind is always right." - Anyway, I get my philosophical advice now at Togo's Sandwich Shop...

Happy Halloween!